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OH how great Sundays are....

...especially when the BROWNS win and the STEELERS don't! I was able to listen to play by play from GUATEMALA....talk about true fan! Now if only my luck holds for tomorrow's BENGALS game! This could be great weekend for my team! GO BROWNS!

Here are some pictures we took after the game. Emma is the greatest baby in the world....she was respectful of the game and took a nap from mid 1st quarter till the end. I think she woke up to me screaming as the final seconds ticked away. Mom thinks I have lost my mind!

We went outside after...but is was raining and still not pool pictures.







Halloween in September

When you cannot be with your baby on specific special days, you have to be creative and bring the special day to your baby...even if it is 1 month early! Rob and I were shopping and saw the cutest Halloween costume at Baby Gap. I was sad at first because I knew I wasn't going to get to dress Emma up for Halloween this year. I decided I would do something awesome for next year for her first USA Halloween. But Rob said to go ahead and buy it and take it with me on my next trip. We thought it was so so so CUTE and couldn't pass it up!

So here is our beautiful soft, furry, white bunny! The peanut butter M&Ms are mine...Rob bought them for me to bring for my chocolate fix. I didn't share of course but promised next year she could have some! Next year Drew has already requested that Emma be a pumpkin! I cannot wait to talk to Rob and see what Jay and Drew think about their little bunny girl.

Enjoy these as much as we did taking them.

Emma is doing so well and we are so lucky that she has had such EXCELLENT care from her first family! We are hoping to get into the pool today. I have the cutest little bathing suit for her...cannot wait to share it with all of you!






More Emma pictures!

We had so much fun with her last night that I hardly had time for pictures! She got in the shower with me and LOVED it....She did NOT want to get out. She loves her shower time. Then we went to dinner and she fell asleep. She slept the rest of the night. I think Mom and I wore her out!

Here are pictures of right after her shower!





Saturday afternoon

We did not get to make it to the pool. It looked like it was going to rain so we did my next favorite thing...FASHION show...just a mini one! Emma is playing with her toys and so much more interactive this visit. She has also been MUCH MUCH happier! (Nan Nan thinks it is because she is here...could be...Emma really seems to like Mom!)

It is so hard to pick our favorites...but here are the top ones from this afternoon!










After all that she needed a nap! (She is napping now!)

More to come this evening!

Breakfast in Guatemala with Emma!

Emma had a very good night! She woke up this morning very happy, smiling, playing and giggly---couldn't ask for a better morning. Here are some pictures from breakfast. Mom and I had french toast and Emma had cereal and apples. She is a GREAT eater and was so happy when she was finished. She is currently taking her morning nap. We are planning to go out by the pool this afternoon, so get ready for some pool pictures if the weather stays nice and sunny!



Look how well she does with a spoon.



She is making "rasberry" noises.



So happy after her belly is full!



Smiling at Mommy and Nan Nan after a great morning!

What a way to end the day!

Emma was so sweet this evening. Here is a little video and a few pictures of her after she went to sleep. (I cannot get the video to work this evening....I will try again tomorrow!)

How lucky are we to have found her?


Sleeping beauty!
Nighty-night! Amy

Friday pictures!

We are here and Emma is with US! Mom and I are speechless....what can I say?! Every time we see her she grows so much and is even more beautiful! She did very well at first and Astrid was able to stay here for almost an hour with us. We tried to talk as best we could with broken Spanish-English! She has had one major meltdown since Astrid left...I think the last picture was taken a few minutes after Astrid left and she was starting to notice her missing.

Right now she is on the couch watching some cartoons with music. She is going to fit into our family perfectly! Hang on...she just fell asleep as I typed!

I will post more on my talk with our lawyer and what you can do to help. There were some severe warning posted on September 27th about the state of adoptions in Guatemala. It was even initially said that Guatemala was NOT going to grandfather in cases...so cases not completed by December 31st were in serious danger of not being able to be completed. Today has shed some more light on the situation. I am going to post a link that I would like each of you to go to, read and if you support the petition please go and sign it. There is strength in numbers and the more poeple telling our government that they are directly affected and want cases to be completed, the better.
Just copy and paste this link.

http://www.petitiononline.com/foafoa1/petition.html







Excited...but worried

Mom and I are leaving tomorrow morning to see Emma. We are so excited and can barely contain ourselves! (This is evident by the amount of stuff I am trying to cram in suit cases!)For those of you who have never experienced being away from your child and only getting to take things to her every 6 to 8 weeks, you have no idea what it is like to have to organize and plan to get everything you want your little one to have inside 2 suitcases. It is VERY challenging! There are many things I would love for Emma to have but haven't been able to figure out a way to get BIG things to her!

As excited I am about going to see Emma and being able to be there with her when she celebrates her 6 months birthday, I am troubled by the current state of Guatemala adoptions and new information that is currently coming to the public. The Department of State has issued a new warning that has most adopting parents very worried. They are saying that they are unsure what will happen after December 31st for children who are not home. They have also quoted they are not sure what will happen with pending cases. This is very disheartening for everyone, like Rob and I, who entered this adoption under "good faith" believing that pending cases WILL be grandfathered in and completed. Possibly I have been comforted by my love for Emma and my false believe that things would be fine and we were far enough along that we wouldn't be as effected by what was about to happen as Guatemala struggles with Hague and UNICEF. I believed that we could expect more and more delays but that Emma wasn't in danger of not coming home because we were so far into the process. I am forcing myself to focus on this trip and not worry about this new warning and new statements that are being issued....but I have to say it is terribly hard. I am so frightened that this little girl that I have know since she was 5 days old and held in my arms at 11 days old, might fall through the cracks and get trapped while two governments loose sight of what is really important...the BEAUTIFUL children in Guatemala who are desperate for opportunities that thousands of families throughout the world can offer them.

Please keep saying your prayers that God helps all these innocent little ones who are going to be affected by the Dec 31st deadline. If Emma is home before this Dec 31st cut off, of course we will be overjoyed and thankful, but it doesn't help me with the much bigger picture and the ones that are left behind. There are many adoptive parents who will not be out of PGN and about to bring their babies homes---these babies are going to be stuck. There is a real chance that babies will be caught in a holding state for months and months. It isn't fair and it isn't the right thing to happen.

Emma's first family is connect to me!

I was having a tough day today missing Emma--look at post below. I was at work tonight and checked my e-mail. I was so excited to see two e-mails from Carmen! She sent some new pictures of Ms. Emma and a little video so I could see my beautiful baby girl! I am sharing a few pictures but not posting the video because it shows Emma's foster brother and sister dancing and she is laughing. They are all happy and having so much fun and Emma is sitting on the couch watching the children and interacting with Carmen. She is so loved and is so happy. Carmen's e-mail said she wanted me to see Emma doing so well and being so happy with her family!

I hope you enjoy these as much as I do!




She has so much hair! I cannot believe she already has a beginning "ponytail"! This is the first "ponytail" picture of my little girl! She was borrowing someone's sun glasses....she is just too cool!
I needed these pictures. My mom and I leave 9 days from tomorrow!

Missing Emma (and sharing some older pics)

I am missing Emma....so what better thing to do but share some of my favorite pictures. These are from our last visit in August. I think some of these pictures really show her personality. She has an inner voice and strength that demands attention. It is amazing that even with her being so little and my limited time with her, I feel like I know her personality. She is a strong, beautiful little girl who has had a truly tragic beginning. I try to think about what it was like for her to be removed from the only person she knew--Lilliana and given to Astrid. Then the periodic visit trips where she is taken away from Astrid and given to me. How confusing and difficult must that be for her! Research says children are resilient but you wonder what the long term effect of these disrupted attachments will be on Emma. The adoption community argues over it if it is better to visit frequently or not because of the continued attachment disruption that occurs when the baby is taken away from the primary care giver (in our case Astrid). I truly believe that visiting is positive and important because even with the disruptions that are occurring every 6 or so weeks (yes that is how frequently I am trying to visit) in the end it will be easier for her to be with us when we are finally united as a family forever. It is going to happen...and that is what I have to focus on. When Astrid gives her to us that final time it will not be like she is handing her over to strangers. She will be giving her to people she knows love her and have spent time loving and caring for her in the past. The other important aspect of my visits are the connection we have made to Emma's foster family. I do not believe I would have been able to truly establish a friendship with her foster family if I wasn't given the opportunity to visit several times and see them as frequently as I have. They are great people and have truly exceeded my expectations of what Emma's first family would be like. She is one lucky girl and I cannot wait to see her again....one week from Friday I will get to hold her again...but who's counting?





9-7 Entered PGN

Our agency just informed us that we entered PGN on September 7th.

Here is information about PGN to help better illustrate the process:
Procuraduría General de la Nación (PGN) process
1)Submit power of attorney ruling by the solicitor attorney’s office–Procuraduría General de la Nación(PGN) . The power of the Guatemalan attorney should have been previously prepared by the parents and the agency in the United States and has to
be registered and approved by the PGN. This process is called‘Protocolización del Mandato de Representación. (This was completed when we visited Emma on April 12th in Guatemala City.)
2)The initial dossier prepared by the International Agency is sent to the ‘Juzgado de la Familia’ A social worker from this office studies the case by looking at the socio economic conditions of the prospective parents and the socioeconomic situation of child. *If a relinquishment case (our case is a relinquishment case), the social worker also studies the socioeconomic situation of the relinquishing parent--Emma's birth mother. This is called Family Court. Emma's birth mother has to have an interview with a social worker. The social worker had to see her with Emma without our foster mom or lawyer. This is the time when the worker makes sure the birth mother knows her rights and makes sure she enters the adoption freely. Our birth mom interview was June 19th.
3)Social worker gives his/her opinion about the case. The social worker writes up her findings in a formal report and the case exits family court. I am not sure when we exited but you must exit family court to enter PGN.
4)The PGN reviews case. THIS IS WHERE WE PRESENTLY ARE!
During the review they look for any missing documents.*If there are missing documents, then PGN issues ‘previo’ or kick out (KO). Our attorney must provides requested documents. 'Previo' or kick outs can occur for ANY and EVERY reason possible. Most cases experience at least 1 KO. Very few lucky cases can get out of PGN with no kick outs.
5) Once the case is out of PGN the Attorney drafts Notarial Decree of Adoption or ‘Escritura Final de Adopción’. This document is signed by the legal guardian (birth mother) of the child and formalizes the adoption. This is the birth mother's 4th and final sign off. Some birth mothers live too far from the city to return and complete this so they sign a power or attorney form allowing the attorney to sign the final sign off. (Our birth mother elected to sign a power of attorney since it is difficult for her to come back into the city.)
6) The Civil Registry (Registro Civil) issues new birth certificate for the minor, stating the child’s adopted name. (Kimberly Yamelith Holsinger)

Our agency reports that on average PGN is taking around 8 weeks to exit with no KO. If there is a KO, it is about 6 more weeks from the date of the kick out. But these times really are just best guesses...no one knows PGN's time lines--it changes daily. Some cases are in and out in record time and some seem to get stuck in there for what feels like FOREVER. Once we are out of PGN we go back to the US Embassy in Guatemala for another DNA test to ensure the child we bring home is the same child that started the process. After the test results are returned and verified, we will be given a VISA and her Guatemalan passport and allowed to bring Emma home to Ohio!

Please keep this special little girl in your thoughts and prayers. It would be the best Christmas present ever if she could be home and celebrating it here with us!

2 more...pool pictures!




Are these not too cute?! I am glad to see that she is around a pool! We will be spending lots and lots of time next summer in our pool!
Emma has the greatest foster family in the world!

Look what we got today! New pictures






I just got these from Emma's foster grandmother, Carmen! We took our foster family a digital camera on our last visit and were so surprised today to get an update on our little one and some new pictures from her foster grandmother! I am so much in love with her. The e-mail said she is doing well and is eating some baby food now...and drinking some juice. You can see that she is happy and healthy and while we are not able to be with her---these are the BEST two words to describe her we could hear. I have some other photos I will add later.

Next visit BOOKED

My mom and I will be visiting Emma September 28th to October 3rd! We will be getting to see her when she turns 6 months old! I cannot believe my baby girl is going to be 6 months old in a few short weeks. We hope to be entering PGN this week. On average, the length of stay in PGN is about 8 weeks. We are praying to put our 8 weeks in with no Kick Outs from the Guatemalan government. (A kick out is when the government of Guatemala rejects something from your file. It could be anything---simple from a slight typo to a copied page being too difficult to read. Some times they give KO for missing information that isn't really missing.) You can see why PGN is called the BLACK HOLE of the process. Some families are in and out in record time.....while others get stuck in the hole for months and months and months. Please keep Emma in your thoughts and prayers and hope she gets into PGN soon....and then out soon!

Pre-Approval September 2, 2007

We just wanted to share that Emma got PA from our government today! (We had been waiting just over 60 days!) I am so excited. We have had a HORRIBLE week and this is exactly the unexpected news Rob and I needed! (I cannot believe we heard anything on Sunday of a holiday weekend. Thanks be to GOD!) PA basically means that Emma meets the USA's standards of an orphan and can be granted US citizenship if the Guatemalan government finds Rob and I to be fit parents. We will hopefully go into PGN the end of this week or beginning of next week. PGN is what we have to go into and get OUT of before we can bring her home. We still have a pretty good wait ahead of us but getting PA is a HUGE check off the list of things to do to bring her home. After we exit PGN it will be 6-8 weeks to bring her home! We are moving closer to getting Emma home where she belongs!

Please keep her in your thoughts and prayers!

End of August update



Here is our latest update on Ms. Emma.

We are anxiously waiting for pre-approval (PA) from the US Embassy in Guatemala to say that Emma is an orphan and is "adoptable" by an American family and can get a Visa. As soon as we get PA, then we will go into the dark hole of PGN---Guatemala's government. They have to determine we are fit parents to raise Emma---some are in and out in a few short weeks....others get stuck in there for months and months. After we exit PGN, we go back to the US Embassy for another DNA test to make sure the baby that started the process is the same baby that is leaving the country, a new birth certificate with Rob and I listed as the parents and Holsinger as her last name, her new passport, and the VISA!

DATE of Medical: AUG-21-07
WEIGHT: 15.9 POUNDS
LENGTH: 63.5CM
H.C.: 42.5 CM

She is adorable. The outfit she has on is one that I bought for Drew but he didn't wear it---I think I bought it on sale and he wasn't the right size at the right time of year. Rob told me to take it because he was tired of seeing her in PINK! Doesn't she look like she is missing us? I am about to book my next trip. Mom and I will be there when she turns 6 months!